how can i make it work? I know i will only be able to have a bed and dresser which is fine because i did ok with it during college. i don’t have the money to buy a new mattress. if i decide to have tv in my room it will probably put it on the wall above my dresser and put some storage containers under my bed for clothes. the closet is also small, i haven’t measured it, but its approx bwtn 3-4 ft, maybe 5 ft(i doubt that) wide. also im in my 20s so i want to make it look a little mature.

comforter set:

http://www.target.com/Spot-Dot-Mini-Bed-Bag/dp/B001U9PUSM/qid=1241031795/ref=br_1_2/189-8368377-5806002?ie=UTF8&node=13876601&frombrowse=1&pricerange=&index=tgt-mf-mv&field-browse=13876601&rank=pmrank&rh=&page=1

or

http://www.target.com/Home-Irregular-Circle-Bedding-Collection/dp/B001MCBEDW/ref=pd_ecc_rvi_4?ie=UTF8&pf_rd_r=1S37PH7YCMEMD4NM7AM3&pf_rd_p=447415501&pf_rd_i=B001U9PUSM&pf_rd_s=left-5&pf_rd_m=A1VC38T7YXB528&pf_rd_t=201




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Tip for people who have bed bugs?

Hi everyone I wanted to let anyone who is dealing with these critters a way to kill them I haven’t had a problem with them for a month. Now its kill on contact so you actually have to see the bug and spray it or the eggs. Do this for about a week I know it is time consuming but it worked for me.
get rubbing alcohol obviously it depends on how big your house is and how much furniture you have on how much you need to buy.
Spray the nests that are probably on the underside of your bed or chair or couch. you’ll need to vacuum your bed and if your bed has a design on it vacuum the design as well go around every crease every crack. Use Vaseline on and wood parts near the floor like the legs. These bus will not cross a Vaseline barrier. Then clean out any clutter you have. Throw your clothes ALL of them in the dryer for 30 minutes, not at one time. Just do a normal load and put it in on high heat. hang them when they come out of the dryer. spray all your furniture where you have seen a bug vacuum it. Vacuum around your base boards, then tape or block off all unused plug ins and light sockets. Bag your bed in a bed bag or if you can’t afford one use plastic wrap. This worked for me. Just try it before you think I am crazy.




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I want to kill myself… I want to cry…?




But I can’t do either…. I feel like my life has been a disaster. Please read this, please help me!

-I’m a 20 year old male
-I dropped out of school when I was 14 (got a GED when I was 17)
-I am not in school now, & I have no job..
-For the past 2 years I’ve lived with my mom & my autistic brother in a small 2 bedroom apt. in the city
-I sleep on the couch in the livingroom
-I have practically no personal items; very few clothes
-I have a poor relationship with both my mother & brother; we barely talk, sometimes we go days w/o saying anything to eachother & my mom mostly just yells at me for not doing anything with my life. She’s been unemployed for a while now & really needs me to get a job… & I honestly wish I could! But I can barely take care of my extremely basic needs right now…
-I have ZERO friends; I haven’t had any real friends since I was 13
-I have gone months without saying more than 10 words a day
-I have social anxiety when talking to any stranger
-I have not had any meaningful emotional relationships since I had friends
-I have spent the last 6 years alone, inside, pretty much just pacing back & forth thinking.
-I worked for my dad when I dropped out of school, but he was a sociopath & never paid me. He owes me over 18K. I avoided contact with my mom during this period; she had kicked me out of her house when she found out I dropped out of school. Now I avoid all contact with my dad
-I have frequently reccurring major depressive episodes.
-Insomnia & hyposonmia
-Fluctuating eating patterns
-Fluctuating exercise patterns
-I feel like I am very immature and have boyish-like characteristics.. Unattractive I think, anyway
-I consider myself somewhat intelligent & bright,DEFINITELYy much still ignorant & uneducated
-I have poor communication skills (due to lack of education & NO ONE TO PRACTICE WITH)
-Unkempt self-appearance (not too bad, but I DEFFINITELY neglect myself)
-Bad, crooked teeth
-Very pale skin with acne
-Probably about 20 lbs overweight (or too fat)
-Lack self-discipline
-Trying to read more books lately to increase my knowledge & expand my vocabulary
-My favorite thing to do… is go to therapy. Sad..

I feel my parents have done a really poor job of taking care of me, though I think I might be responsible for part of this because I never "cried for the help I needed" I felt guilty whenever I asked for anything & thought that my parents would just know the best way to take care of me (… very stupid of me..). So now I guess I have severe self neglect problems, maladaptive avoidant behaviors, constantly contemplate suicide…, & don’t know how to put my life back together… except go to therapy for a long time & sort this out…
The only diagnosis I have received is Neurotic Depression; my therapist doesn’t really "do diagnosis".

I really need to get my life on track… I’m so lost & confused & lonely…. I really wish I could cry right now…

I keep thinking I should kill myself because of how far off course my life is & how much I am constanly stressed out, never having any moments of relief… In my head I am always trying to decide between living & trying my hardest to get my life on track & make something of myself & find happiness or giving up & commiting suicide because I think trying my hardest won’t be good enough & I’ll end up exhausted, miserable, & unhappy till I die… I’m really not sure I should even bother with this life anymore.. My future seems so bleak and futile… & needlessly painful. I should just put myself out of my misery….

I really just need someone to listen to me and offer some help right now.. One hour a week with my therapist seems to only be a TEASE! to me….

I want to get back to having friends & girlfriends (or one I mean), I want to get into school & get educated, I want to have a decent career…

Any advice is appreciated. SORRY THIS WAS SO LONG & INARTICULATELY WRITTEN.
*******!!!!! ****!!!!! I just want some advice!!! There is no one I can talk to…. I’m just that much of a loser… Tell me who I could talk to!!!! My therapist doesn’t have the time, she’s implied to me that I ask for enough attention already…




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I want to kill myself… I want to cry…?




But I can’t do either…. I feel like my life has been a disaster. Please read this, please help me!

-I’m a 20 year old male
-I dropped out of school when I was 14 (got a GED when I was 17)
-I am not in school now, & I have no job..
-For the past 2 years I’ve lived with my mom & my autistic brother in a small 2 bedroom apt. in the city
-I sleep on the couch in the livingroom
-I have practically no personal items; very few clothes
-I have a poor relationship with both my mother & brother; we barely talk, sometimes we go days w/o saying anything to eachother & my mom mostly just yells at me for not doing anything with my life. She’s been unemployed for a while now & really needs me to get a job… & I honestly wish I could! But I can barely take care of my extremely basic needs right now…
-I have ZERO friends; I haven’t had any real friends since I was 13
-I have gone months without saying more than 10 words a day
-I have social anxiety when talking to any stranger
-I have not had any meaningful emotional relationships since I had friends
-I have spent the last 6 years alone, inside, pretty much just pacing back & forth thinking.
-I worked for my dad when I dropped out of school, but he was a sociopath & never paid me. He owes me over 18K. I avoided contact with my mom during this period; she had kicked me out of her house when she found out I dropped out of school. Now I avoid all contact with my dad
-I have frequently reccurring major depressive episodes.
-Insomnia & hyposonmia
-Fluctuating eating patterns
-Fluctuating exercise patterns
-I feel like I am very immature and have boyish-like characteristics.. Unattractive I think, anyway
-I consider myself somewhat intelligent & bright,DEFINITELYy much still ignorant & uneducated
-I have poor communication skills (due to lack of education & NO ONE TO PRACTICE WITH)
-Unkempt self-appearance (not too bad, but I DEFFINITELY neglect myself)
-Bad, crooked teeth
-Very pale skin with acne
-Probably about 20 lbs overweight (or too fat)
-Lack self-discipline
-Trying to read more books lately to increase my knowledge & expand my vocabulary
-My favorite thing to do… is go to therapy. Sad..

I feel my parents have done a really poor job of taking care of me, though I think I might be responsible for part of this because I never "cried for the help I needed" I felt guilty whenever I asked for anything & thought that my parents would just know the best way to take care of me (… very stupid of me..). So now I guess I have severe self neglect problems, maladaptive avoidant behaviors, constantly contemplate suicide…, & don’t know how to put my life back together… except go to therapy for a long time & sort this out…
The only diagnosis I have received is Neurotic Depression; my therapist doesn’t really "do diagnosis".

I really need to get my life on track… I’m so lost & confused & lonely…. I really wish I could cry right now…

I keep thinking I should kill myself because of how far off course my life is & how much I am constanly stressed out, never having any moments of relief… In my head I am always trying to decide between living & trying my hardest to get my life on track & make something of myself & find happiness or giving up & commiting suicide because I think trying my hardest won’t be good enough & I’ll end up exhausted, miserable, & unhappy till I die… I’m really not sure I should even bother with this life anymore.. My future seems so bleak and futile… & needlessly painful. I should just put myself out of my misery….

I really just need someone to listen to me and offer some help right now.. One hour a week with my therapist seems to only be a TEASE! to me….

I want to get back to having friends & girlfriends (or one I mean), I want to get into school & get educated, I want to have a decent career…

Any advice is appreciated. SORRY THIS WAS SO LONG & INARTICULATELY WRITTEN.




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In my dreams, I see black caterpillars all over my body. I see my mom taking off my clothes and they were everywhere. I’ve see the same dream the night before and its making me feel nauseated and scared that something bad is about to happen to me or my loved ones. Please help me.




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How can I cure my wife's insomnia?




Almost every night she complains that she can’t sleep and so as not to bother me by tossing and turning, she goes out for a drive and comes back a few hours later. The car seems to be soothing to her because sometimes she doesn’t get back until the next morning. She says when she finally gets sleepy she has to take advantage of it because it could pass so she parks the car wherever she is and dozes off until morning. This can’t be good for her because when she gets home her clothes are all ruffled and her make-up is smeared. She looks like she was in a fight and she complains that her back and her legs are sore. This is really annoying to me because in this condition she never wants to have sex anymore so now it’s affecting me.
I need to know how to cure her of insomnia so she can stay home and have a good night of sleep.
BTW, she can’t take sleeping pills because she says it interferes with her birth control pills, and the she said the Doctor concurs.

Thanks for the help.




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How can I get used to sleeping with clothes on?




Weird question, but I’m going away to boot camp (Army) and then job training for a year +, and pretty sure I won’t be able to sleep in the nude as I usually do. I just can’t fall asleep with clothes on as the elastic bands of clothing and stuff feels weird pressed against my skin. Princess and the pea sort of deal :P

Any tips for getting used to sleeping dressed?




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I was dreaming last night and I awoke in a cheap hotel with my girlfriend who was a prostitute. The door was open ajar, and I went to close it, and locked it with three different locks(we had 10 or so). I was about to have sex with my prostitute of a girlfriend, but i woke myself up because i knew that if i had sex with her then I’d bust in my clothes and in my bed in real life. It was weird, because it was almost totally real, and when i awoke, i remembered everything. what does this mean? How are dreams interpretted? why did i have this dream?




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For the last 3 years, my cat has crapped everywhere: in addition to inside her litter box, I have found piles on the stairs, next to her litter box, on the bathmat, in closets, under my bed, IN my bed, on doormats, inside the laundry hamper (with freshly laundered clothes), IN my daughters bed. I have tried everything: Yes, I keep the cat box clean– I even have another one for her. I have even tried to keep her out of certain rooms by closing the doors– only to find a pile on the stairs. She is 10 years old and I feed her Iams adult dry food– always have. I have had her for 9 years. I am at my wits end now and I am out of ideas. Is it unethical to have her put to sleep for this? If so, then do you have other suggestions? I love her very much and I don’t know what to do.
I have had her checked by the vet twice, but no problems were found. She is a Sphynx (=hairless), so outdoors is out of the question.




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How often do you wash your sleeping clothes?




Hey guys i just wanted to know how often do u guys wash your sleeping clothes like pajamas. I mean the clothes that you wear after you take a shower when you come home from work or school. Its usually the clothes that i wear when i do my homework, eat dinner and watch TV, so im guessing its not that dirty since im not sweating. Will washing my sleeping clothes once a week enough?




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When my baby is sleeping during the day for four to six hour periods. I can’t get her to wake for anything. I have taken off her clothes, washed her face, moved her around, everything. But then she is awake all night. Even when I feed her at night she doens’t go to sleep. If there was some way to get her to change her sleep pattern to sleep at night how she sleeps during the day I would be over the moon.




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My son is not even 8 months old and is already wearing 18-month clothes. He has outgrown those sleep sacks that are like wearable blankets. He thrashes around in his sleep (rolls over, crawls into the corners of the crib, etc), so he won’t stay tucked in under a blanket — what did you do with your kids to keep them warm at night after they couldn’t fit in the sleep sacks anymore? Thanks!




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